Pamela May Flagg-Coates, 71, of Tolland, died Monday March 29, 2021 at Manchester Memorial Hospital. Born in Dexter, ME she was the daughter of the late Henry P. Flagg and Shirley V. Flagg. She had retired from Pratt & Whitney Aircraft after many years of service. She was predeceased by the love of her life John Tabler Donnelly II. Pamela is survived by many nieces and nephews. A celebration of her life will be held on June 6th at the Campground. The John F. Tierney Funeral Home, Manchester has care of the arrangements. For online condolences please visit www.tierneyfuneralhome.com.